Sunday, November 21, 2010
Being articulate (or not).
My inability to be articulate has really been getting me down lately. I struggle so much with putting my thoughts into words. I want to be able to talk about my opinions on certain issues; I want to share what's on my mind with others who are as interested in discussing similar subjects because, as my social psych professor said, sometimes talking about things in groups can help you understand or become clearer on certain points, or even generate new ideas. But if I can't even figure out the right words to put forth the thoughts I have, how am I supposed to get anywhere? It's just frustrating, and I'm not sure what to do about it.
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I tend to struggle with that, too, and I find myself holding back or stammering during group conversations or class discussions because I just can't work up the courage to express what's on my mind. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is to just say what you want to say. Don't worry about whether it sounds articulate enough. Take a few moments to go over what you're trying to convey to others if you have to. If you need that pause, take it. I'm not much of a good public speaker myself, and I often lose my train of thought. Sometimes, though, you just have to say it out loud in order for your thoughts to start making sense and before your thoughts run away from you.
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